At the Well

Like the Samaritan woman from John 4, we too may experience troubles in our relationships or encounter people who lead us away from how we hope to live.

Life-giving encouragement centred on God’s word brings hope and reconciliation. Starting July 2023, MM’s panel of counsellors will answer your relationship questions. Would you come and chat with us?

Ask Your Question
Scan the QR code or click the Ask your question button above to share your questions on:

  • Family
  • Dating and Marriage
  • Friendships
  • Relationships at Work

Our Panellists

Benny Bong

Benny Bong has been a family and marital therapist for nearly 40 years. Besides providing counselling, he also coaches social workers, counsellors, and has worked with numerous organisations in his capacity as a trainer and consultant. Benny is the author of Couples in Crisis: How to Avoid Common Pitfalls in Your Marriage, which was published in 2008. Benny has helmed the You & Your Family column in Methodist Message for more than 16 years. He is a member of Kampong Kapor Methodist Church.

Rev Tay Li Ping

Rev Tay Li Ping is currently pastoring at Christalite Methodist Chapel. She is married to Joseph, her college sweetheart, and they have five sons—three biological, one adopted and one foster. Before becoming a pastor, Rev Tay was an Industrial-Organisational Psychologist with the Ministry of Defence, and was a stay-at-home mum for a period of time. Rev Tay is particularly interested in the intersection of Psychology and Spirituality / Theology.

Koh Ai Jin

Koh Ai Jin is a registered clinical counsellor and clinical supervisor with the Singapore Association for Counselling. She has extensive experience in marriage and family counselling, and addressing mental health concerns and psychological trauma. Passionate about both counselling and Christian ministry, Ai Jin has worked in church settings for over a decade, was previously a polytechnic lecturer and now serves as Vice-President of the Association of Christian Counsellors (Singapore). She is married to a Methodist pastor and they have three teenage children.