relationships

Forgiveness, reconciliation and Christian love

There is a common misconception among Christians that forgiveness is something that can be brought about by one person (the offended party), while reconciliation requires two parties (the offended and the offender).

Reconciliation in the Church

Reconciliation is both a sacred call and a practical task for the Church, rooted in the gospel and shaped by our Methodist heritage.

Chinese

My mother seems reluctant to let me get engaged

Recently, my long-distance boyfriend of three years visited and planned to propose to me. He spoke to my mother to ask for her blessings, but she said she needed time to think and pray about it.

Toxicity detox: How to survive, revive and thrive at work

Christians are not immune to toxic workplaces. Drawing on Scripture and practical wisdom, this article explores how believers can survive the pressure, revive their workplace culture and ultimately thrive as Kingdom witnesses in the marketplace.

Dating a non-Christian guy

I would like to intentionally date a non-Christian guy. However, I wonder if it is permissible since Christians should not be “unequally yoked”. Our relationship has deepened over the past year, and he has been sharing more about his pluralistic views on faith with me.

My married colleague has a profile on a dating app

I saw my colleague’s profile on a dating app that I use. I know that he’s married with kids. A mutual colleague who knows his wife also saw it and we are wondering what we should do, or not do anything at all and mind our own business.

How happy are Christian marriages in Singapore?

At the State of the Family 2026 plenary discussions, church leaders and workers were reminded that even “happy” Christian marriages may conceal some quiet dissatisfaction—particularly among wives.

Menu