Is true worship also learning to sit at a table together as a family?

The world is messy. We see conflict, division and broken relationships everywhere. A small irritant can cause one person to snap—and what begins as a petty argument can lead to silence, estrangement or even the breaking of a lifelong relationship. So we ask: How do we fix it? Where does healing begin? Is it with the family? With worship? With the Church?

家庭单位作为社会的房角石和基石

近年来,婚姻制度和家庭观念似乎受到了巨大的压力和审视。其实,从一开始,它就一直受到攻击。当我们看第一个家庭(亚当、夏娃、该隐和亚伯)时,我们看到的是种种的功能失调和破碎。

Intentional love: Strengthening the heartbeat of Christian community

In a world that celebrates the loudest voices and those with stellar achievements, it is easy, even within families, to overlook the quieter roles or unseen efforts that hold everything together. The apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians 12 on the other hand, reminds us that every member of the body is indispensable, no matter how visible or hidden our contributions may be.

New chapter of care: MWS dedicates latest nursing home

“This is an extension of a movement within the Methodist community to (enrich) lives—a movement grounded in compassion for those around us, especially those in need, and grounded in dignity, because these are souls precious before God,” said Eugene Toh, Chairperson of the MWS Board of Governance.

Sharing life, health and peace through Jesus

Imagine having to submit an essay to your school principal every month, the said principal having a reputation for sternness and being a stickler for the proper use of the English language. This is what family and marital therapist Benny Bong agreed to when Mr Earnest Lau, who was his principal at Anglo-Chinese School, asked him to write a regular column for Methodist Message (MM).

A quick guide to Christian denominations

It has often been said that there are too many denominations in Christianity, which is overly confusing for those without and perhaps also for those within. This article traces the major branches of Christian denominations over time.

The foundational role of the family in society

In a speech delivered at the launch of National Family Week at Suntec Convention Centre on 4 June 2022, then-Prime Minister of Singapore, Lee Hsien Loong, articulated the Singapore government’s unwavering commitment to support the family in these memorable words

I cannot go on any longer in this marriage

I have been married for more than 30 years. I do not have a healthy relationship with my husband as he tends to be critical and even verbally abusive. I’ve wanted to divorce him many times over the years but didn’t because I know God does not want divorce and I stayed on because of the children. I bear with him because he came from a broken family and perhaps doesn’t know better. Now that my children are grown up and things have not changed, I am thinking that I should think about myself in my later years. In fact, my children have encouraged me to leave my husband because of how he treats me. I have suggested going for counselling but my husband is not open to that. Even when I tried to explain how I felt, he ends up blaming me. I feel that I cannot go on any longer in this marriage and don’t know what to do. ~ Exhausted

Is it possible to remarry in a Methodist church?

I’m a divorcee and I’m looking to get married again. My ex-wife and I divorced because of her money habits. She had lent various people/family members over $40k without telling me and had issues about saving money, amongst other issues that led to mental neglect. Our divorce was not due to infidelity.
Now, I have found someone that I would like to settle down with and give marriage a second try. Would it be okay for us to get married in a Methodist church? Would a Methodist pastor be able to solemnise our wedding? If not, would it be okay to use the church hall but have a non-Methodist pastor solemnise our wedding? ~ Joseph

Trust is about not having all the answers

Life has a way of bringing unexpected challenges, and for me, one of the greatest struggles was learning to trust God in uncertain times. In 2010, I migrated from India to Singapore, filled with hope and uncertainty. For almost a decade, my family and I faced numerous struggles trying to settle down.

Come, let us celebrate!

On 20 April this year, Christians all over the world will celebrate Easter. We remember the virgin birth and hope of the world during Christmas, but more so than his birth, the resurrection of Christ validates, and is the foundation of, Christianity.

来,我们一同庆祝吧!

全世界的基督徒将在今年的4月20日庆祝复活节。我们在圣诞节纪念主耶稣由童贞女诞下,并为这个世界带来了希望,但比耶稣的诞生更为重要的却是基督的复活,祂的复活是基督教的根基,也验证了基督教的教义。正是耶稣基督的复活向世人展示了上帝胜过了罪恶与死亡。基督的复活,实现了祂降生时给世界所带来的盼望。

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