In this season of theological training, one prayer keeps surfacing in my heart: “Lord, give me a tender heart.” Not a soft or passive heart, but one that is open to God, sensitive to his presence and moved by the needs of others.
In my first year, I served as the chapel sacristan—a quiet yet deeply formative ministry. Each month, I prepared the space for Holy Communion, often in silence and solitude. It was unseen work, but sacred. Through these simple acts, I came to see that worship begins long before the first word is spoken. Each tradition we observe reveals something of the beauty and breadth of Christ’s Church. I learnt that a tender heart serves faithfully in hidden places, trusting that God sees and honours quiet obedience.
Now, I serve as the President of the Student Council—a more visible and public role. Leading fellow students from diverse church and cultural backgrounds has deepened my belief that leadership is, at its core, a ministry of presence. It’s about listening well, building trust and shaping a community where spiritual friendships grow so that we may build God’s Kingdom. True leadership, I’ve come to see, flows from hearts that are teachable, humble, and open to God’s refining work.
May we all continue to pray, “Lord, give us tender hearts”—hearts willing to serve, quick to repent and always open to God’s shaping hand.