
Discover how a pair of retirees are bringing joy and connection to seniors—including those living with dementia—at MWS Senior Care Centre – Eunos.
It begins with do-re-mi
The rhythmic beat of drums fills the Peace room at MWS Senior Care Centre – Eunos as Teresa Teng’s “The Moon Represents My Heart” drifts through the air. A music therapy session is in progress, led by retiree volunteers Ling Nee Ker, 58, and Teo Cheng Chuan, 66. For the past few months, they have been guiding a group of seniors—including those living with dementia—to explore instruments from guitars and harmonicas to Chinese flutes.
Today, four seniors with dementia are participating, each holding a traditional Chinese drum. Among them, Neo Kim Teck sits quietly at first. But as Teresa Teng’s classic begins to play, he bursts into song with a robust, raspy vibrato, pouring his heart into every note.
“Mr Neo was quite reserved at first,” Nee Ker shares. “He had no musical training and even struggled when we first taught him do-re-mi. But now he’s one of our best performers. I always tell seniors that after retirement, they should find a new hobby—something that excites them and keeps them learning to help reduce the risk of dementia.”
A former operations director in the healthcare industry, Nee Ker had been actively volunteering long before retirement, often engaging nursing home residents through singing. “I’m drawn to places where people have been forgotten, because that’s where the need is greatest,” he explains. “I use music to share God’s love because it can touch seniors with dementia who are no longer reachable through words. Medically, it has been proven to stimulate the brain and bring emotional and therapeutic benefits.”
He calls this volunteering stint part of his “second phase” of life—a season devoted to bringing God’s love to the community. “I retired early so I could make myself available for God’s work while I’m still able,” he reflects.
That conviction deepened two years ago when, just months into retirement, he suffered a stroke triggered by a long- standing heart condition. His MRI revealed some brain cell loss, but the damage was minimal, and he now manages his condition with long-term medication. “Each morning, I thank God for another day and use it to give back to society,” he says. As Jesus said, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me’ (Matthew 25:40 NIV). I am encouraged whenever a senior asks why I volunteer because it affirms that they are feeling God’s love.”
Connecting with seniors through touch and memories

“Is it painful for you?” asks Lili Koh, 67, as she massages the hand of Lim Bee Choo, a wheelchair-bound client at MWS Senior Care Centre – Eunos. “See, your hands aren’t so cold now. Rub them together like this—show me? Very good! That will help your blood circulation and you won’t feel as cold.”
Since August 2024, Lili has been providing hand massages to seniors alongside fellow members from Christ Methodist Church, after observing that clients with dementia were often left out of activities. “Even when they are included in large group programmes, without adjustments, they can feel isolated,” she explains. “For those with more advanced dementia, conversation is difficult, so we connect with them through the sense of touch.”
Last year, the former enrichment teacher also conducted a reminiscence facilitation programme for seniors. Using different themes, the sessions sparked conversations about occupations, favourite places and old friendships. An in-house cooking activity even had clients plucking bean sprouts and tasting the fruits of their labour. “They reminisced about cooking, their favourite foods and running households. Through these sessions, even the quieter seniors opened up and felt uplifted,” she recalls, adding, “Reminiscence is a simple yet powerful way to engage them and give them a chance to hear their own voices.”
Dr Eileen Aw is from Wesley Methodist Church and provided outpatient treatment for university students for 35 years.
She went on to help establish St Luke’s Hospital and lent her expertise to St Luke’s Eldercare Services. She served with MMS as Chairperson of the Advisory Board for the Singapore Mission School (SMS) in Laos for approximately seven years.
Of her years with MMS, she says there was no special calling; she simply responded to a need. “When I heard about SMS in Laos, I thought ‘Wow!’ How wonderful to have a mission school in one of the least developed Southeast Asian countries! It’s a divine opportunity to build capability through education and to share Christian teachings and values, which are cherished memories of my own student days at Methodist Girls’ School (MGS).”
Having served on MGS’ Advisory Board for 27 years, she understands well the function and responsibilities of a school board. “Recruiting Christian staff from Singapore for SMS was our biggest challenge, and establishing and implementing SOPs was slow and sometimes trying. But the tireless dedication of fellow board members and volunteers from Singapore was encouraging.”

Have a heart for seniors?
From door-to-door outreach to leading morning exercise sessions, there are many ways you can volunteer with seniors. As The Methodist Church in Singapore marks its 140th Anniversary, its social concerns arm, Methodist Welfare Services, is rallying members to collectively contribute 1.4 million volunteer hours through The Healing Nation initiative—that’s just 35 hours per person to uplift lives. Scan the QR code to find out more.

New MWS Board of Governance Elected for 2025-2027
At the Annual General Meeting on 13 September 2025, Methodist Welfare Services (MWS) elected its Board of Governance (BOG) for the 2025-2027 term. Many of the current BOG members, including Chairperson Eugene Toh, will continue their service, providing steady leadership and continuity for the organisation. At the same time, new members from various Methodist churches who bring valuable perspectives and expertise have been elected.
- Eugene Toh Ming Hong, PPA (G) – Chairperson
- Ronnie Gan Seow Khaw – Vice-Chairperson
- Mak Wei Munn – Honorary Secretary
- Raymond Khoo Peng Ann – Assistant Honorary Secretary
- Yeo Kai Eng – Honorary Treasurer
- Latha E K Mathew – Assistant Honorary Treasurer
- Philip Oh – Board Member
- Joanne Low Eu Min – Board Member
- Paul Ong Chin Seong – Board Member
- Dr Dex Khor Teik Heng – Board Member
- Terence Tan Boon Howe – Board Member
- Melvin Dineshraj S/O Balakrishnan – Co-opted Board Member
- Dr Astrid Yeo Poh Kim – Co-opted Board Member
- A/P Dr Lee Wee Leong – Co-opted Board Member
- Chen Ze Ling – Co-opted Board Member
- Dr Amutha Chinnadurai – Co-opted Board Member
- Woon Kee Yang – Co-opted Board Member (TRAC BOSC)
- Samuel Tay – Co-opted Board Member (CAC BOSC)
- Wilson Sampath – Co-opted Board Member (ETAC BOSC)
- Darius Chua Tan Peak – Representative, The Methodist Church in Singapore
- Guan Yeow Kwang – Ex-Officio, Secretary of the Trustees of The Methodist Church in Singapore
By the Methodist Welfare Services Communications Team. / Photos courtesy of Methodist Welfare Services

