You & Your Family

Through grit, the way forward

  An article in the papers caught my eye some weeks ago. It was interesting because it seemed to say something different about marriage – something that, intuitively, I agreed…

Small deeds with great love

As we were about to end our tea conversation, my friend made an unexpected proposal. She had clearly thought about it for some time and felt the need to broach…

It’s all about our (self) image

Beautiful young woman gets beauty injection in forehead from sergeant. Isolated over white background.   A new neighbour moved into a unit a couple of doors from my office a…

Turning regrets to plans

By the time this article is read, the year 2016 would be nearing its end. What has this year been like for you? Was it much like previous years or…

Asking the right questions

The enquirer stated in her email that she was looking for a counsellor who was experienced and competent, as her husband could be a “difficult man”. I guess she meant…

A time to ‘Man Up!’

  As a Family and Marital Therapist, I have learnt not to assume when couples come for marital counselling that they naturally want to save their marriage. Even so, when…

Pilgrims on a quest

  A word we do not often use to describe ourselves is that of being a pilgrim. This may be because the notion of being a pilgrim is rather foreign…

Lessons along The Way

My wife and I recently took a holiday unlike any other we ever had. For 10 days, we walked along an ancient pilgrimage route ending at Santiago, Spain, to a…

Who do you go to bed with each night?

The late Anthony Yeo, often acknowledged as the Father of Counselling inSingapore, once gave this advice: the television (TV) should be banished from the bedroom. He felt its presence would…

Driven by our desire

YouTube was all abuzz when an American actor declared that he had a “dirty little secret”: for some time, he had battled with an addiction to pornography. This started a…
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