You & Your Family

Selfless and self-love

I HAVE JOURNEYED with this woman for almost 15 years now. I say “journeyed” as this is the word that can best describe my work with her over these years.…

Forgiveness and healing

  RIGHT RELATIONSHIP “We begin this process of forgiveness not based on the merits of the individual to be forgiven or even our desire to want to rebuild our relationship.…

Go and sin no more

  WHEN A BAD AND UNEXPECTED THING happens to us, we often ask why. We want to know the reasons why it occurred. Nowhere is the search for rationale more…

What is happiness?

  “WHAT IS HAPPY?” is is the question that I often pose to my wife in response to her query about whether I am happy. It is a reply that…

A secret do-gooder

  “We do not have to be enormously wealthy in order to help … You do not have to look too far for the needy. They are all around us,…

Transitions can help us grow

  IN A FEW WEEKS’ TIME, members of some churches will be experiencing a change that is familiar to many, but not to all, church organisations; that is the rotation…

Training animals and humans

  “I REHABILITATE DOGS AND I TRAIN OWNERS.” Mr Cesar Milan, who appears on the popular TV series “The Dog Whisperer” on the National Geographic Channel, reminds viewers of this…

A gift of nature, a reminder of perspective

  A FEW WEEKS AGO, my wife and I were surprised when we noticed a bird’s nest being built on the palm plant in our tiny enclosed yard. This unusual…

Generativity versus self-absorption

  ERIC ERICKSON, A FAMOUS PSYCHOLOGIST, introduced the theory that everyone develops through eight phases. One of these is the stage of Generativity versus Self-absorption or at times described as…

The best motivation comes from within ourselves

  IN A RECENT MESSAGE from my daughter she wrote, “Come Dad, motivate me!” This rather unusual appeal comes from a student preparing for her first-year university examinations. If one…
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