You & Your Family

A gift of nature, a reminder of perspective

  A FEW WEEKS AGO, my wife and I were surprised when we noticed a bird’s nest being built on the palm plant in our tiny enclosed yard. This unusual…

Generativity versus self-absorption

  ERIC ERICKSON, A FAMOUS PSYCHOLOGIST, introduced the theory that everyone develops through eight phases. One of these is the stage of Generativity versus Self-absorption or at times described as…

The best motivation comes from within ourselves

  IN A RECENT MESSAGE from my daughter she wrote, “Come Dad, motivate me!” This rather unusual appeal comes from a student preparing for her first-year university examinations. If one…

A most unusual but worthy prayer request

  PRAY THAT I can pee. This must be one of the most unusual prayer requests I have ever been given. Yet it is probably one of the most needful,…

Battle not lost till you throw in towel

  THE SON WAS ACCOMPANIED by his mother for their first counselling session. “He is defiant,” she complained “and he never listens to me. We cannot get him to stop…

We are family – united in our grief

  “BY THE WAY, WHO ARE YOU?” or “Are you a family member?” These two questions were often asked by well-wishers at the wake of a dear friend who passed…

‘I too am a stranger’

  HE ENTHUSIASTICALLY EXTENDED HIS HAND and introduced himself. I am Isaac, he announced to my surprise as I had braced myself for a name that I assumed would be…

Sharing our ups and downs

  MY DEFENCES ARE RAISED every time I am with a group of Christians and they begin to share. The word “share” has special meaning in Christian parlance. It denotes…

The two faces of humanity

  “HOW INHUMAN!” my friend remarked with a tone of disbelief and disgust. He had just been sharing with me on how Orang Utans were being mistreated in Thailand. It…

Regrets and letting go

  I HAVE ALWAYS tried to live my life without regrets: to not look back on decisions made earlier. I also try to avoid the disappointment of unmet expectations by…
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